Physical Attraction: The Ugly Truth by Kyle W.

Some people are so shallow that if they were water you couldn't even jump in their puddle.

For both men and women the first thing you notice about a person is appearance. I don't care how sensitive you are, it's only natural to do this. If someone appears to have no remarkable qualities, no man or woman will be attracted at all; at first. One may have a superb sense of humor and a personality that is wonderfully inviting and intriguing, he or she might be sweet and sensitive, but if that person doesn't even have a chance to talk to legitimately someone they're interested in, then it's just another average looking person hitting on someone with no interest. My point is, men and women need a reason to go that next step.

Everyone reading this knows and has known an "unattractive" guy who would do anything for a girl who thinks he's the greatest guy in the world and that's why they're friends. Do you think he wants to be friends? He waits on the sidelines willing to give his life and heart for her while she consistently goes after guys who don't call her and cheat on her with the next piece of ass he sees.

If he looked like a walking Old Navy commercial he'd be the man of her dreams. Point is, looks matter to both men and women when making a first impression. Sometimes, sometimes, a guy can get over a hurdle like that, if given the chance. If my post here does nothing more than make one woman think about giving some guy like that somewhere a chance, it's worth it.

And guys, as one of you, I know that sometimes we overlook girls that don't have the most luxurious assets, that have a few extra pounds on her frame. Why not give that girl a chance? She may not be Megan Fox or Angelina Jolie, but she's most likely pretty amazing in her own right. Give her a chance, instead of glazing over her as she tries her hardest to impress you.

Thanks for reading, if you did. If not, eat me. -Kyle